The Last Word...
Accommodations
For those that would like to spend the night nearby we regularly include the name of top hotels and
inns nearby when we send out our invitations. If you would some other suggestions please feel free to
contact us directly.
Attendance
For couples, your invitation will be for a man and woman. If for any reason the woman is unable to
attend, the male partner will NOT be permitted to attend alone. We apologize for any inconvenience this
may cause, however, this is simply another precaution we are taking to assure that everyone is who
they say they are and so that we may all enjoy the evening.
Beverages
We are unable to provide liquor due to state liquor laws and request that you bring with you what you
wish to consume. We will however be providing common set-ups. (If you like your whisky with low-carb,
low-fat, caffeine-free, Diet Fresca or your vodka with pomegranate juice, you may want to bring your
own exotic mixers and leave them in your car just to be covered.)
Cancellation
If you are unable to attend and need to cancel you must do so at least 24 hours in advance. Failure to
properly notify us that you will not be attending will result in you NEVER being invited again.
Chaperons
While organized as a private house party several invitations will be sent to couples who have never
been to a swing party before. If you and your spouse have some experience and would like to assist
the host and hostess with any questions the guests may have or with any issues please let us know.
We would be happy to talk or meet with you ahead of time and discuss the plans for the party.
Directions To The Party
You will receive an email the week prior to the event that will contain your invitation along with our
address and cell phone number.
Dress Code - Elegant, Erotic Attire
This is a social evening, dress to impress. Ladies, if you can’t think of something sexy to wear, a black
cocktail dress always works. (Not to mention they are often quite easy to remove.) Men please do not
wear jeans, shorts, t-shits or other attire that is best suited for the gym. You may expect to see
gentlemen wearing jackets. Looking for inspiration from your closet? Don’t forget our optional theme.
This does not mean that you are required to dress in "costume". For the more adventurous, use this
as a starting point for your sexy outfit. Whatever you choose, you are welcome to bare as much as you
dare. However, your mother was right when she said, "You can't go wrong with a black cocktail dress".
(Just don't tell her how low the neck line is on your newest one.)
Future Parties
Our goal is to establish a guest list for future events and host them on a quarterly basis. As we have
only hosted a few parties in the area, we continue to rely on photos, profiles, e-mails and referrals in
order to screen would-be attendees ahead of time. We have not had the opportunity to meet everyone
before hand. Simply said, we are hoping to assemble a more "up-market" crowd. (i.e. If your spouse
does not already own a black cocktail dress, then you probably won't feel comfortable.) However, our
immediate reaction is that yours most likely does and appears quite charming. Ultimately we will
develop more of a "private guest list" but as we are new to the area this method will have to suffice. Our
next event is tentatively scheduled for New Years Eve. If you have any additional questions please feel
free to ask.
General Behavior
There will of course be NO Tolerance for Pushy People, Drama, Drunks, or Drugs. As the hosts, we
will not hesitate to request the assistance of ALL the men present to assist in dealing with any
unacceptable behavior. Also, no cameras or camera-phones will be allowed.
Guest List
We are using our own contacts, referrals from other guests, plus screening interested attendees from
several different websites. We will not be distributing a guest list or photos regarding this event. All
information we receive will be kept confidential.
Invitations
This is a private party by invitation only. You must have your invitation printed out, and in hand to gain
admittance. No one is invited INSIDE without the invitation. Your invitation will be sent to you one week
prior to the event. You MUST RSVP upon receiving your printable invitation.
Late Arrivals
We would appreciate if being “fashionably late” did not extend past 10:30 pm so that we too may enjoy
the party. If for some reason you will be arriving after that time, please be courteous and call the
number on the invitation so that we may welcome you at the door and let you in. (Also, don’t forget your
invitation, you MUST have it to get in.)
Music, Entertainment & Professional Services
If you are or know of a professional musician or DJ in the lifestyle, please let us know. We are always
looking for talent people to help with our events. Also, we are always interested in locating a
professional masseuse, artist/body painter, caterer, bartender, or other persons with similar lifestyle
experience that would like to assist with future events. We have been told by our friends that have
helped out in the past that it was a wonderful way for (them) a new couple to "break the ice" and meet
others.
Non-Married & Married Couples
If you are attending with someone who is not your spouse (or even if they are) you are responsible for
the other person. We know from experience that everyone, not just first timers, have on occasion over-
imbibed in an effort to feel more relaxed. If for any reason (health, work, outside emergency, babysitter,
etc.) your partner feels it is time to leave, you must also leave. Please be considerate and do not allow
your personal issues to disrupt the evening for everyone else.
Open Door Policy
Our standard “Open (Bedroom) Door “ rule will apply. An open door means you are welcome to enter.
From there you are welcome to watch, and may join in only if and when invited. We strongly encourage
everyone to keep the doors open, this is a lifestyle party and everyone understands that No means No.
If for some reason a door is closed, you should knock before entering.
Playthings, Props & Toys
For those of you that like to keep a few extra gadgets in your overnight bag that is certainly permissible.
Please make sure however that a camera is not one of them.
Referrals
If there is another couple or single woman that you would like to have join us for the evening, you must
contact us ahead of time. While we are happy to welcome you and your friends, we will need to receive
their names, photos, and email so that they too can receive an invitation. Please specify if your referral
is someone you have met in person, or someone you have only corresponded with online. Again, no
one will be INVITED in without a printed invitation
RSVP - The “P” stands for Please
When you receive your invitation with the address for the party, please send us a reply email so that we
may insure you received the information and can get an accurate count of the number of attendees for
the caterer.
Safe Sex
Always something we recommend. Both guys (and gals) should have condoms handy. And no, we are
not talking about the one you put in your wallet in high school. Throw that one out and get some new
ones!
Smoking
Ideally, outside would be desired, but chances are you won’t be dressed for it, so please be
considerate of others who do not smoke.
Something We Missed?
If so, please let us know.
Too Many Rules?
Gosh, we hope not. From our own experience letting everyone know what to expect and spelling things
out ahead of time is important. (And besides George's father was an engineer, so being anal about the
details comes naturally to him.) We want to make sure everyone has a great time.
We look forward to seeing you soon!
For those that would like to spend the night nearby we regularly include the name of top hotels and
inns nearby when we send out our invitations. If you would some other suggestions please feel free to
contact us directly.
Attendance
For couples, your invitation will be for a man and woman. If for any reason the woman is unable to
attend, the male partner will NOT be permitted to attend alone. We apologize for any inconvenience this
may cause, however, this is simply another precaution we are taking to assure that everyone is who
they say they are and so that we may all enjoy the evening.
Beverages
We are unable to provide liquor due to state liquor laws and request that you bring with you what you
wish to consume. We will however be providing common set-ups. (If you like your whisky with low-carb,
low-fat, caffeine-free, Diet Fresca or your vodka with pomegranate juice, you may want to bring your
own exotic mixers and leave them in your car just to be covered.)
Cancellation
If you are unable to attend and need to cancel you must do so at least 24 hours in advance. Failure to
properly notify us that you will not be attending will result in you NEVER being invited again.
Chaperons
While organized as a private house party several invitations will be sent to couples who have never
been to a swing party before. If you and your spouse have some experience and would like to assist
the host and hostess with any questions the guests may have or with any issues please let us know.
We would be happy to talk or meet with you ahead of time and discuss the plans for the party.
Directions To The Party
You will receive an email the week prior to the event that will contain your invitation along with our
address and cell phone number.
Dress Code - Elegant, Erotic Attire
This is a social evening, dress to impress. Ladies, if you can’t think of something sexy to wear, a black
cocktail dress always works. (Not to mention they are often quite easy to remove.) Men please do not
wear jeans, shorts, t-shits or other attire that is best suited for the gym. You may expect to see
gentlemen wearing jackets. Looking for inspiration from your closet? Don’t forget our optional theme.
This does not mean that you are required to dress in "costume". For the more adventurous, use this
as a starting point for your sexy outfit. Whatever you choose, you are welcome to bare as much as you
dare. However, your mother was right when she said, "You can't go wrong with a black cocktail dress".
(Just don't tell her how low the neck line is on your newest one.)
Future Parties
Our goal is to establish a guest list for future events and host them on a quarterly basis. As we have
only hosted a few parties in the area, we continue to rely on photos, profiles, e-mails and referrals in
order to screen would-be attendees ahead of time. We have not had the opportunity to meet everyone
before hand. Simply said, we are hoping to assemble a more "up-market" crowd. (i.e. If your spouse
does not already own a black cocktail dress, then you probably won't feel comfortable.) However, our
immediate reaction is that yours most likely does and appears quite charming. Ultimately we will
develop more of a "private guest list" but as we are new to the area this method will have to suffice. Our
next event is tentatively scheduled for New Years Eve. If you have any additional questions please feel
free to ask.
General Behavior
There will of course be NO Tolerance for Pushy People, Drama, Drunks, or Drugs. As the hosts, we
will not hesitate to request the assistance of ALL the men present to assist in dealing with any
unacceptable behavior. Also, no cameras or camera-phones will be allowed.
Guest List
We are using our own contacts, referrals from other guests, plus screening interested attendees from
several different websites. We will not be distributing a guest list or photos regarding this event. All
information we receive will be kept confidential.
Invitations
This is a private party by invitation only. You must have your invitation printed out, and in hand to gain
admittance. No one is invited INSIDE without the invitation. Your invitation will be sent to you one week
prior to the event. You MUST RSVP upon receiving your printable invitation.
Late Arrivals
We would appreciate if being “fashionably late” did not extend past 10:30 pm so that we too may enjoy
the party. If for some reason you will be arriving after that time, please be courteous and call the
number on the invitation so that we may welcome you at the door and let you in. (Also, don’t forget your
invitation, you MUST have it to get in.)
Music, Entertainment & Professional Services
If you are or know of a professional musician or DJ in the lifestyle, please let us know. We are always
looking for talent people to help with our events. Also, we are always interested in locating a
professional masseuse, artist/body painter, caterer, bartender, or other persons with similar lifestyle
experience that would like to assist with future events. We have been told by our friends that have
helped out in the past that it was a wonderful way for (them) a new couple to "break the ice" and meet
others.
Non-Married & Married Couples
If you are attending with someone who is not your spouse (or even if they are) you are responsible for
the other person. We know from experience that everyone, not just first timers, have on occasion over-
imbibed in an effort to feel more relaxed. If for any reason (health, work, outside emergency, babysitter,
etc.) your partner feels it is time to leave, you must also leave. Please be considerate and do not allow
your personal issues to disrupt the evening for everyone else.
Open Door Policy
Our standard “Open (Bedroom) Door “ rule will apply. An open door means you are welcome to enter.
From there you are welcome to watch, and may join in only if and when invited. We strongly encourage
everyone to keep the doors open, this is a lifestyle party and everyone understands that No means No.
If for some reason a door is closed, you should knock before entering.
Playthings, Props & Toys
For those of you that like to keep a few extra gadgets in your overnight bag that is certainly permissible.
Please make sure however that a camera is not one of them.
Referrals
If there is another couple or single woman that you would like to have join us for the evening, you must
contact us ahead of time. While we are happy to welcome you and your friends, we will need to receive
their names, photos, and email so that they too can receive an invitation. Please specify if your referral
is someone you have met in person, or someone you have only corresponded with online. Again, no
one will be INVITED in without a printed invitation
RSVP - The “P” stands for Please
When you receive your invitation with the address for the party, please send us a reply email so that we
may insure you received the information and can get an accurate count of the number of attendees for
the caterer.
Safe Sex
Always something we recommend. Both guys (and gals) should have condoms handy. And no, we are
not talking about the one you put in your wallet in high school. Throw that one out and get some new
ones!
Smoking
Ideally, outside would be desired, but chances are you won’t be dressed for it, so please be
considerate of others who do not smoke.
Something We Missed?
If so, please let us know.
Too Many Rules?
Gosh, we hope not. From our own experience letting everyone know what to expect and spelling things
out ahead of time is important. (And besides George's father was an engineer, so being anal about the
details comes naturally to him.) We want to make sure everyone has a great time.
We look forward to seeing you soon!
